1-Sentence-Summary: The Daily Laws is a page-a-day, calendar-style book covering the three big topics of mastery, power, and emotions, sharing Robert Greeneās best lessons from 20 years of research of the dynamics within and between humans.
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If your son had worked some 60 odd jobs by the time he was 36, would you write him off as a lost cause? Itās a brutal question, but itās hard to imagine any parent wouldnāt at least be deeply worried. And yet, in Robert Greeneās case, everything ultimately turned out more than just fine.
After what can only be called āa rough startā ā and thatās an extreme understatement ā Greene has now published multiple million-copy bestsellers. After researching the dynamics within and between humans for more than 20 years, he decided to curate the best of his many ālawsā from his books. The result is The Daily Laws, a 366-page compendium with short, daily life lessons.
The book is structured like a calendar, but the months are sub-grouped into three major sections. Hereās a lesson from one of each of them:
- Mastery is a lifelong journey, not a destination we arrive at.
- The game of power is always on, and there are only 3 ways to react to it.
- Avoid tactical hell by zooming out regularly in all kinds of life scenarios.
Ready to learn what Robert Greene has discovered after 20 years of analyzing the human mind? Letās dig in!
Lesson 1: Mastery is a never-ending process ā it must be maintained, not attained.
Over the first three months, the book deals with mastery, about which Greene wrote a book of the same name.
Going back to his own journey to becoming a writer, Greene had loved words since he was a child, but a career in journalism didnāt pan out, and so he began bouncing from job to job. He kept writing on the side, however, and eventually, opportunity struck. Greene published The 48 Laws of Power, a book that sold over two million copies and changed his career.
If you asked him today, however, heād still tell you heās constantly learning. Greene believes mastery must be maintained, not attained. After discovering your ālifeās task,ā a process he likens to āan archaeological digā rather than a magical revelation, you first must apprentice. Following years of mentorship, youāll become a master ā but thatās not where the journey ends.
In The One Thing, Gary Keller shared a great way of looking at it:
āWhen you can see mastery as a path you go down instead of a destination you arrive at, it starts to feel accessible and attainable. Mastery is a way of thinking, a way of acting, and a journey you experience.ā
No matter how good you are at your job, how famous you become, or how many books you sell, remember that you must always keep practicing, learning, and growing. Mastery is a path we walk, not a destination we arrive at.
Lesson 2: Power is a never-ending game thatās always being played, and you can only embrace it, ignore it, or accept it.
Most of Greeneās writing deals with power: how we attain and lose it, and the games people play to get and keep it. For five months, his daily laws cover various questions around power. One of the most fundamental yet important ones is that humans are always playing power games.
Whether you like it or not, people want power, and so wherever humans are involved, power struggles come into play ā pun intended. There are only three ways to deal with the fact that life is a never-ending game of power:
- Embrace it. Many people love power games. Unfortunately, the Machiavellis out there often lose their power due to corruption and being too desperate for it.
- Ignore it. Others pretend power doesnāt exist or turn up their nose at anyone who gives in to a desire for status. But thatās just opting out of a game everyone else plays. You can ā but youāll also end up with no power.
- Accept it. A balanced person will choose when and which power games to play. You can sit out some of them but make sure you attain power where it really matters to you, and thus live a good life.
Power isnāt inherently good or bad. Like money or status, itās just a tool. What it leads to depends on how you use it. Stay aware of the power games happening around you at all times, and then make conscious decisions about which ones you actually want to play.
Lesson 3: If you donāt want to get stuck in ātactical hell,ā you must take a higher, wider, more long-term perspective regularly.
āTactical hellā is a term Greene uses for the reactive mode all of us find ourselves in from time to time. Youāre so stressed out, you donāt even know where to begin. Deadlines, chores, the demands of friends and family ā itās all too much, and all you can do is react, react, react. But thatās not living. Thatās just being pushed around by lifeās events and your emotions.
In order to combat tactical hell, we must ātake an elevated perspective,ā Greene says. What does that mean? Zoom out! Remember the big picture. Think about how big life is, and how small your problems in comparison. Consider the long-term view: Will your neighbor really stay angry at you forever because you blocked his driveway once?
Most of the battles you find yourself in arenāt really battles you have to fight. You can disengage. Take a breath when life gets stressful. Write an angry email but donāt send it. Remember your mortality, and think about long-term consequences rather than short-term discomfort. Take these steps, and youāll rarely get stuck in tactical hell!
The Daily Laws Review
In Simon Sinekās The Infinite Game, there is an exercise to discover your āJust Cause.ā When I did it for Four Minute Books, I realized our larger purpose was this: We want to build a world in which every person reads at least one page a day, and no human, child or adult, is afraid to open any book.
āRead a page, save the day.ā Thatās the mantra we want you to adopt, and in that sense, The Daily Laws: 366 Meditations on Power, Seduction, Mastery, Strategy, and Human Nature is the perfect tool. Try reading a page a day, and if it doesnāt stick, just flick around to see which laws grab you the most!
Fun fact: Ryan Holiday was Greeneās mentee, and he likely helped him with this book, which is very similar to The Daily Stoic, an equally valuable and easy-to-read book.
Who would I recommend the Daily Laws summary to?
The 33-year-old frustrated project manager who canāt seem to get ahead at his job, the 46-year-old successful painter whoās wondering where next to take her career, and anyone who wants to get an overview of Robert Greeneās work.
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